Be a Neuro-Contortionist!

Richard Rosson (stage name Rubber Ritchie) is a British contortionist.

How flexible are you?  I’m not referring to physically, but rather emotionally and mentally.  When something happens to you, do you have more than one way to handle it?  Is there a certain phrase or circumstance which always brings out of you the same, unhelpful response? How much does this limit you? The fact is…

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The Map is not the Territory!


In case you are just joining us, we are going through a dozen or so presuppositions which many have found very helpful in making a positive change in their lives.  The first was to separate the person from the behavior.  The second was re-framing how one looks at failure.  The last blog covered how your brain makes the maps from which you…

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You are a map maker!

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Have you seen the movie The Matrix?  In this post we are going to talk about how you know what you know.  In fact, you may want to “fasten your seat belt Dorothy because Kansas is going bye bye.” – Cypher How do you know what is real?  “If real is what you can feel, smell,…

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